The first time I got my hair cut by a barber I couldn’t have been more than five or six years old. Dad took me down to ‘Johnny the barber’ on Bank St. In all the years of having Johnny cut my hair I never did know his last name. And for years, there he stood, always wearing a short sleeved white smock, looking more like a chef instead of a barber. And I do remember crying on that first visit. From then on it became a love affair. And since then I’ve become enamored with original barbershops. Not the stylist’s swank venues of today. But the large plate glass windows that everyone could look through as they passed by to see exactly who was in the chair and what was happening. I’m a nostagic freak and the sight of a glass cylinder holding that bluish green gel surrounding a dozen combs brings a smile. The arm on the chair that was pumped to raise you to the right level. The strap at the side used to sharpen that straight razor. The little chrome box that spun out a handful of shaving cream, those are all trinkets that pique my interest. I loved going to Johnny’s. And I’m not quite sure why. I hated the hairs down my neck, despite the vacuum that always culminated the process, right before the the undoing of the clip and the lifting of the body apron. I didn’t care much for the stick-’em that was applied to the front hairs , keeping them standing straight and pointing heavenward. My dad only allowed me to get a crew cut. There was no other choice at that time. Perhaps my love of the place stemmed from the fact that Johnny always had the lastest of the Archie comic books. And I was more than enamored with Betty and Veronica.
When I was eight, the Andy Griffith Show debuted on our black and white 19 incher. The year was 1960. And despite Andy’s homespun philosophy, Barney’s gestapo antics, and Opie’s endearing demeaner, I found myself enjoying mostly the TV visits to Floyd’s barbershop. I loved that spinning barber pole. It was just like the one outside Johnny’s, except that his was colored. Yesterday, I met Russell Hiatt, who was the role model for Floyd the barber. The shop still stands on Main St. in Mt. Airy, NC (there is no real Mayberry) and …..at a spry 88, Russell told me that he has been cutting hair in this same spot for the past 65 years. He’d cut Andy’s hair, Opie’s, Wally and Goober, Gomer and just about everyone else in town. I was amazed with his stories, his longevity, and taken in by the nostagia of the shop. We chatted until a customer came in for a trim and took his attention away. It was a morning well spent. I felt like I was 8 again.
Wanting to Move and Can’t
Spring break has arrived at many southern high schools as well as campuses throughout America. Snowbirds are igniting their deisels in the annual migration north. And gasoline prices have risen every day for the past twelve. Isn’t that ironic. How uncanny that these moves up and down coincide with each other. My own yearnings are to pack and go as well. Not for any reason other than a move is long overdue.
“It isn’t about finding oneself by leaving, it’s about finding oneself by living.”
For the past few weeks I find myself not really living but merely existing. I’m enjoying each day. But there exists no semblance of ecstacy to stir the soul]. A move, a move anywhere is imminent. I’m realizing that my aging soul rests best when the stay in one place doesn’t exceed a month. After that time I feel more a settler than a traveler. And a settler I’m not. The weather has been sublime, and problems and worries are scant. Yet a sameness settles over my existence that begins a new chapter of boredom. There are no complaints but a yearning to enter the unknown once again. Maybe the tales are becoming mundane and my fellow comrades relate stories that I’ve heard twice each this month. Enough of the philosophical. It’s just the no see-ums picking at my legs. Yesterday, a horse fly bit me on the back—through a T-shirt.
A mosquito picked Brutus up and carried him three feet this morning. “I kin take dem damn bugs no mo’.” Yet the leave is put on hold. Robin’s left jaw looks as if my right hook landed squarely. The alleviation of pressure on the bad tooth has left her left side looking as if she been in quite the melee. On Monday, we learned that a previous root canal had gone bad. Bacterial infection has set it. The surgeon opted not to repair it yet due to the severity of pain. He drilled the tooth and cut an incision between gum and cheek to alleviate pressure and provide an outlet for the infection. Sleep has been the result of several pain killers. Oral surgery is scheduled for Friday, so the move North, waits for a few more days.








